Have you ever met people who always say “there is no way I can do that!” with eyes wide open, determination in their face and you can almost touch the stony wall of “I will reject what ever you say, no matter what” attitude? Observe your own internal sensation now. Do you feel a sense of hope or a sense of gloom? If you feel the latter, now is a good time to change your attitude around and use the following phrases when and where ever possible: “What would happen if ….”, “Imagine if it is possible (or successful, or already been achieved)” and “What is stopping you from making it possible?”